As a 40 something female, I deal with sexual frustration regularly

As a 40 something female, I deal with sexual frustration regularly

A woman in my old ministry years back shared her frustrations of being single, at her sexual peak, but traveling for business, no opportunity to date or a relationship

Dear Mark, One of the reasons you do not get all the answers you need for this kind of problem is because not many know the true answer and I do not claim to be an expert! LOL Firstly, I want us all to understand that this is far from a single guy or gals issue! Good solid ples: wife too tired because of nursing and getting up and taking care of baby plus her regular daily work or job, sometimes husbands feel meaningful hyperlink replaced, rejected…we’ll save this for another day. Husband is handed a crushing load of responsibility from his salaried job, so he is working 90 hours a week and can not afford (in his mind) that he can allow anything else in his life, his job is sucking the life out of him….

Anyhow, I am assuming that you are a very passionate person, a get it done kind of guy, like to lead and not a follower, if I am wrong, just say so, lol God has made you this way to be the leader he has chosen you to be. David was one of these types and screwed up a little! Some people do not have this kind of calling and have a hard time understanding them that do. This next part is not easy, and will most likely only understood by those that have this type of calling on their lives. Please see this as a blessing and not a curse! There is a time and place for everything in our lives, even this! Learn to take this sexual drive and let it manifest itself into the leadership role, or for the preparation of that leadership role that He has planned for you.